As we meander on the various highways and byways of life’s roads, one of humanity’s most noble of virtues is often only noticed by few and seldom seen by many. It can be observed, for example, when an athlete is receiving accolades and awards for his/her accomplishments and attributes their success to their teammates — or in the successful businessman/woman who, when receiving an award, gives thanks to God and acknowledges the support of their family. How about the individual who lets someone ahead of them in a grocery line?

The virtue to which I am referring is the quiet virtue of humility. As the previous examples have indicated, humility does not focus on self, but quite the opposite, it deflects accolades on to others. Those who emulate this virtue garner the respect and trust of those around them. They set an example for others to follow, making this world a better place to live.

This is in sharp contrast to those individuals in all walks of life who act like they are the smartest person in every room and take full credit for all their personal and professional achievements. This creates a lack of respect and trust by those who come into contact with them. These types of people should be in our prayers daily.

As for me, I try to be humble, but sometimes fall short. This honest acknowledgment enables me to address my imperfections and thus improve myself.

So, for those of you that are in the same boat as me, my advice is to always be self-aware and persistent. Continually reflect on how others contribute not only to your successes but also your everyday well-being — and be quick to give them honest credit and thanks not only in your own heart but also to their face. When you are humble, you receive a feeling of happiness and contentment that you have done the right thing. This is exactly what He would want you to do. The closing quote says it all:

“Being humble means recognizing that we are not on Earth to see how important we can become, but to see how much difference we can make in the lives of others” — Gordon B. Hinckley.

What kind of difference are you making in the lives of those around you?

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Daniel J. Paul is a retired school administrator. His columns focus on education, old-fashioned family values, relationships, and other topics. To submit comments or find archived columns, go to meaningfuldifferences.net.