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Is cash the new trend in wedding gifts?

Dear Readers: Today’s SOUND OFF concerns wedding gifts:

“Dear Heloise: I recently attended the wedding of a friend’s daughter, and since they made no bones about wanting cash for their honeymoon, I gave them $100.

“I was told that asking people to fund a honeymoon is now the new normal for couples getting married. Am I out of step with modern weddings?” — Brandi W., New Braunfels, Texas

Brandi, we’ve had several letters on this new trend of couples asking for money for their honeymoon. Readers, what would you do if you were asked to give money for a couple’s honeymoon? — Heloise

FAST FACTS

Dear Readers: Here are some other uses for old newspapers:

* Cut into narrow strips to use in mice and hamster cages.

* Use as packing material.

* Cut into smaller pieces and place in a compost pile.

* Place on the ground, wet with water from a hose, then cover with soil or gravel to keep weeds from coming up.

— Heloise

FISHING FOR NEEDLES AND THREAD

Dear Heloise: Want a perfect sewing basket for all of your sewing supplies and loose buttons? Use a fishing tackle box. It’s perfect for your scissors, threads, thimbles and more. — Patsy K., Little Creek, Del.

Patsy, great idea! And the next letter has another useful sewing hint. — Heloise

THIS HINT IS ‘SEW’ CLEVER

Dear Heloise: If you use a bar of soap with the wrapper on it as a pincushion, it not only will hold a lot of pins, but the soap also will actually lubricate the needles, making them slide easily through various fabrics. — Meghan P., Latrobe, Pa.

HOUSEWARMING GIFT HINTS

Dear Heloise: Whenever someone I know moves into a new house, I always give the person a housewarming gift. Over the years, I’ve found that some items are really appreciated more than others because of their usefulness. Things such as a hand cart, a gift certificate to a home-improvement store or hardware store, a set of screwdrivers, or even small items such as a flashlight or a basket of energy-efficient light bulbs are a huge help to people when they move. — Judy T., Kingman, Ariz.

Judy, these are excellent suggestions. When you move, you may realize you need more light bulbs than you did in your old place, along with shower curtain rings, a hammer or many other items. — Heloise

TIRE TROUBLES

Dear Heloise: My concern is about bikes. Kids get them for birthdays and Christmas. As soon as a tire goes flat, the bike becomes useless. Kids need exercise — too much TV and too many video games!

My question is: Can’t tire manufacturers make solid bike tires? — A.W. in Temple, Texas

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Hints from Heloise run occasionally in Lifestyles. Readers may send a hint to Heloise, P.O. Box 795000, San Antonio, Texas 78279-5000, fax it to 210-HELOISE, or email: Heloise@Heloise.com. Letters won’t be answered personally.

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